Let's be brusque, so are you one of those people who considers that everyone who is good at something is 'GIFTED'? If not that's great but if yes...this blog is for you 👀.
Who is Gifted? Any person who many people consider was provided the magical ability to be good at something by some supernatural entity is called Gifted. It's not actually that is it ?
I am not an atheist but it's about time we understand that it's not okay to connect everything we may not be able to comprehend properly or want the excuse to not be asked to be like with a belief of majority.
This concept is rather connected with psychology. To be brief, there are two mindsets one is called Fixed mindset and other is the Growth Mindset. Fixed Mindset means to consider that every ability which a person can hold in their personality comes naturally and someone can not improve ever. Growth mindset is quite the vice versa. To tackle the thought that people are Gifted we need to adopt Growth Mindset and trust me you can do that.
Just try :)
I just wanted to write this short blog to make people who have the fixed mindset aware that-"I don't want to be rude but please understand by considering someone Gifted you are indirectly implying that the second person doesn't have to put in any effort to be where they are and to be good enough for themselves. Perhaps you don't mean it but the term 'Blessed or Gifted' comes of to a thing which a person was served in a silver platter with. To be first in the race, the winner must have put in effort it's obvious and they don't deserve to have their struggle ignored. A mother nurtures a child for nine months before he/she/they is born. What you can do to show you admire such a person is understand that they deserve the ability or quality💛 "
It's sweet to appreciate not to underestimate.
Note-No image in this blog is owned by me, all the rights go to their respective owners and this is not written by a professional, just by a person writing from experience :)
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